Fix The Foundation Coaching
Most people tell you to forgive. Or to get revenge.
I'm not most people.
Unchained: The Third Way is a program built for people who’ve been deeply hurt—but aren’t interested in peace, pretending, or platitudes.
You’re still angry. Still holding the weight of what they did. And you don’t owe anyone your forgiveness.
This is about forward movement on your terms—a process that helps you channel rage, own your pain, and build a life that isn’t defined by what they did, but by what you do next.
It’s not about letting go. It’s about taking back.
This is the third way. And it’s yours.

You did everything right. You played by the rules.
You showed up early, stayed late, did the extra no one noticed.
Your loyalty was unmatched, and you tried to keep the peace.
And somehow—you still got burned.
They told you to let it go. To move on.
To be quiet, kind, spiritual, and small. Offer forgiveness.
But you’re done with that now.
Because somewhere deep in your soul, something has snapped back into place.
Something holy. Something dangerous.
It’s not rage. It’s resolve.
The same resolve that stood in front of a tank with nothing but grocery bags.
The same determination that sat at a lunch counter,
knowing a man with a billy club stood behind, ready to strike.
The same fire that flipped temple tables without drawing a sword.
This isn’t about revenge.
And it’s not about healing so you can go back to being walked on.
It’s about remembering who you were before the world showed you it doesn’t care.
You’re not here to be nice.
You’re not here to be mean.
You’re here to be undeniably true.
You are here to stop setting yourself on fire just to keep others warm.
This isn’t martyrdom. This is resistance.
The sacred kind. The kind that doesn’t shout, doesn’t shoot, doesn’t beg—
It stands.
You’re not waiting for closure anymore.
You’re not asking for an apology.
You are reclaiming your power—with or without permission.
If you’ve been the strong one for everyone else,
if you’ve been overlooked, betrayed, dismissed—
but something in you still refuses to go numb...
This is your third way.
And it starts right here.
Unchained: The Third Way isn’t just about surviving a bad job—
it’s about seeing the situation through a completely new lens.
You’ll learn how to step back, assess the full landscape,
and build a strategy that leads to real, lasting change.
Yes, quitting is always an option.
But how do you know the next job won’t be just as toxic—or worse?
The real power comes when you learn to change the dynamics,
not just the environment.
We’ll teach you how to challenge the unspoken rules,
influence the culture, and invite those in power to confront
what they’ve ignored or misunderstood.
This is your moment to stop playing defense
and start leading from the inside out.


Kim Douthit, Bio
BS from Xavier University
MA from University of Cincinnati
Post Graduate Work at Xavier University
Life Coach Certification from The Academy of Modern Applied Psychology
Certified Spiritual Coach
Raised Catholic and attended Catholic School from elementary through college
Spent 31 years as a classroom teacher
Taught Faith Formation courses at all levels
Serves a commissioner of the Catholic League Sports Program